At which PUA level are you operating?

Do you believe the ultimate PUA goal is as simple as finding women and getting them into bed? Yes, for some men that can be as deep as PUA ever gets. But there is SO much more than that for you to experience in picking up women. What level of PUA do you operate at?

LEVEL 1: The Horny Man

We’ve all been there. For some of us it was when we were in high school. For some, it was just this morning. Either way, Level One is a general feeling that a woman is needed. At this level, the man in question doesn’t have a clue as to how he might find the lucky woman. In PUA parlance, this is your common AFC (average frustrated chump).

LEVEL 2: The Man Who Knows He Deserves Something Better

You can get laid whenever you’d like. Perhaps you have a couple of regular booty calls or a friend with benefits. You’ve gained some confidence, and you feel your inner game growing. And while you appreciate the average-looking girls who make themselves available to you, there is this nagging feeling that you should be with the prom queen. Someone who really makes heads turn and makes your pals jealous. You don’t have a concrete plan as to how you will get a hot woman, but you have confidence that you’ll figure something out.

LEVEL 3: The Man With One Hot Woman

Congratulations! You've found the woman who makes your friends drool every time they look at her. And while there's no denying she's hot as hell ... there are just a few things about her that make you wish she would change about herself. Yeah, you're happy. But you know you could be a lot happier ...

LEVEL 4: The Man With Several Hot Women

You are living the PUA dream. You have a variety of hot women who make themselves available to you whenever you like. A booty call for every mood. You walk into any situation confident in the knowledge that you can quickly seduce the hottest woman in any room. You become the man that beautiful women want to be with and that other men want desperately to be. This is the end goal of most PUA advice. And yet, there is still one deeper level to explore …

LEVEL 5: The Sexually Complete Man

You have taken home enough prom queens to have learned that there isn’t a correlation between a woman's beauty and her ability to give sexual pleasure. You’ve realized that you deserve more than an okay blow job followed by average sex in the missionary and doggie-style positions. You want kink. Role-play. Alternative ways of fucking that some women just won’t to do. You want to swing from the chandeliers. You want to experience sex that you can look back on fifty years from now and smile. And you don’t want to waste your time picking up a girl and taking her home before you find out what kind of sexual experiences she’s up for. You've come to realize that sometimes you need the school slut (I recommend getting a couple of them at once, by the way) rather than the prom queen.

But where does the sexually complete man find woman like that? And how does he know how to avoid the ones who just want nice, average, regular sex?

I don’t know about you, but I’ve only found one place like that. It’s the one place where women wanting immediate sex are willing to be explicit in their sexual needs and desires. All I have to do is fill their needs. Piece of cake.

Are you curious about exploring Level Five of PUAdom? It's actually rather easy. You can learn more here.

Would you rather be a woman's considered purchase or her impulse buy?

HINT: Would you rather wait a month to get laid or would you rather be having sex right now?


Marketers have long understood that people buy different types of products in different ways. Some purchases require some thought, maybe some research. Others are “impulse buys.” Consider a woman at a grocery store. In the cereal aisle she picks up a brightly colored box. She reads the contents, checks the calories, maybe the amount of sugar and the price. She puts that box back on the shelf and picks up a different brand, repeating the process. Finally she makes her choice, puts it in the cart and moves on to the next aisle. The next time she’s in this aisle, she may simply buy the same brand again, or you may see her examining multiple brands before making her choice. This is a considered purchase for her.

But watch that woman when she gets to the checkout line. She grabs a pack of gum and throws it on the conveyor belt. No real examination of contents, price or anything else. She grabs it and the decision is made. This is an impulse buy.

It’s the same way with online dating/sex sites. The traditional sites are set up to make you a “considered purchase” for her. You answer questions. You fill out compatibility surveys. You write essay questions about who you are and what you want. You give them more information than even the IRS would ask you. By the time she writes her first word to you, she knows: your height, your body type, your eye color, your hair color, your age, your birth date, whether you’ve ever been married, if you have any kids, whether they’re living with you, what part of town you live in, your hobbies, your pets, the industry you work within, what you like to do on a date and a variety of other things you may choose to share about yourself. On some sites she even knows all of your sexual proclivities and/or your yearly salary. She approaches that site with a long-term plan: she joins, she carefully fills out everything, and then starts reading the notes she gets from the thousands (yes, thousands) of men trying to get her attention, with the intention of studying each one, and responding to the ones that seem like the best prospects. She then starts going out on dates with the expectation of finding the perfect long-term partner.

The very fact that a dating/sex site presents so much information about you to a potential date creates the assumption that all of this information is important and needs to be taken into account. I mean, honestly, do you really care about her eye color or what she does for a living? No. But she is paying careful attention to every bit of information she sees on you, and making judgments with each new factoid.

So you have already been examined, probed and investigated before she even bothers to communicate with you. And if you’re almost her perfect match, except you’re an inch shorter than she’d like, or she’d really like to find someone with a different eye color, she moves on without so much as a hint that she might have been interested. Most women know they can find someone a little more perfect if they just keep looking. She owes it to herself to be picky!

But CL is the ONLY effective place online where you can position yourself as her “impulse purchase.” She finds herself at home and bored, more than a little horny, so she gets on CL to see who she can meet and have fun with tonight. Yes, there is a pretty good chance she’d rather be in a completely satisfying long-term relationship right now, but it takes a great deal of time and effort to get to that point, and she wants to have some fun tonight. It’s time for her to grab an impulse purchase and put it on the checkout counter!

So now she has no need to see a full explanation of who you are and what you are all about. You don’t have to commit yourself to a single deep exposition into your heart and soul that every woman will read, contemplate and judge. Now, when you’re on CL, you are just the words crafted in a response to her post, specifically for that woman to see. Or you are the words in your own ad, created to appeal directly to one kind of woman who will read what you have written and react with an email telling you she is interested, and interested NOW. With each communication, you will position yourself as exactly the man she is looking for tonight. She wants to go grab a drink at that new bar that opened up and then “see what happens from there”? What a coincidence! You were already planning on going there tonight! She needs someone who can please her orally over and over all night long? Perfect! That’s your specialty! She wants someone she can tie down and use however she likes? Wonderful! You can even bring the rope!

Your long-term goals, your career, your history, everything she would focus on if you were a considered purchase, it’s all irrelevant. Because now you’re an impulse buy. Just be fun, honest and safe, and you will get laid.


(This is an excerpt from the new hit book, Secrets of the Craigslist Conqueror: An Expert's Guide to Getting Laid on Craigslist. Would you like to read more? Go here.)

How the earthquake has made it easier to get laid ... at least for tonight!

Yes, the earthquake could have turned out to be a terrible tragedy. But everyone seems to be fine, no real damage anywhere. So let's move on to how this benefits you!

Actually there was SOME damage. Some internet nodes seem to be slow or even downright offline. If any of your favorite websites are based on servers in the U.S. east coast they may be hard to access. This has had a MAJOR effect on the spammers who flag all real women's ads in the casual encounter section.

Usually posts from real woman have a life expectancy of about 10 minutes before they are flagged. Tonight they seem to be up for an hour or more in all cities across the U.S.

Less flagging means more opportunity for guys to find women who want sex now. So ... what are you waiting for?


P.S. -- Want to know how to maximize your chances once you're there?

Where the women on Craigslist are hiding

It’s a common mistake: a guy hears that the casual encounters section of Craigslist is brimming with women wanting to get laid quickly. So he goes to CL … and … hey! Where the hell are all the women’s ads???? Almost all I see is ads from men!!! WTF???

Relax. The real women are right there. Their ads simply disappear after 5-10 minutes, while all the ads from men stay up for days or months. You just have to know how to develop your timing. It’s as easy as hitting refresh repeatedly. Here’s why …

Spammers are always working hard to get to us guys, to sell us something: an unneeded membership to a paid dating website, a membership to a porn site, etc. In their evil brilliance, the spammers have found that if they “flag” the real women’s posts, the many guys who don’t understand the timing of CL will only be able to answer the fake ads from “women” who will then try to get those poor schmucks to sign up for some kind of membership.

SOLUTION #1: Hit refresh. Regularly. Like every 15-25 seconds. About every 7-10 minutes, Craigslist will post another handful of fresh ads from CL users, from men, women and spammers too. You can’t predict the exact timing, so refresh frequently. Then when a new ad from a REAL woman presents itself, act fast. You have about 5-10 minutes to answer her ad before she is flagged and her ad is removed. If you haven’t been fast enough, after you send your note you will get a message back from your email provider saying the email was undeliverable to that address. Blame the spammers, their quick flagging and your own slow typing.

SOLUTION #2: Place your own ads seeking women. Despite the BS and spammers, an ocean of REAL women continues to cruise the site looking for men.  Tens of thousands of women.  Every day.  In every major city throughout the US and the world. And since most ads placed by men don’t get removed from the site, those men’s ads can live on Craigslist for weeks or months.  Think of it like laying a mine field.  If you compose killer ads, post enough of them frequently and strategically, REAL women will find them and respond accordingly. BANG!!!

SOLUTION #3: Try both. Some women just place ads and wait for the men to come to them. Some would never place an ad, but WILL answer ads from men that really get their juices flowing. Give yourself the best odds of hooking up with a new woman tonight. Hit both groups of women.

Want to learn how to develop your Craigslist game and achieve the sexual lifestyle of your dreams? It’s all within your grasp …

Pop quiz: what is the most efficient site on the internet for hookups?

Pencils down! If you said Craigslist, then A+ for you.  For years, it has been the biggest and most active pickup sites on the internet. To this day, the Craigslist casual encounters page rules as the top-rated destination for hooking up online with women for sex.  More than 55 million people go to Craigslist every month—and a large percentage of them are women going there in search of immediate sex. 

Why?  Because Craigslist is free. It doesn’t charge to post ads or to reply to other people’s ads.  It is completely anonymous and it doesn’t require a static profile.  These are all major attractions for the women of Craigslist.

Meanwhile, most other dating and sex sites charge guys monthly fees to review women’s profiles and pictures.  But, how many of those women are actually available?  Are they still active on the site?  Will they be online tonight? Will they be in the mood to meet tonight? Do they even live in the same state?  What kind of returns are these sites delivering on the $40/month investment?  Well, there are those compatibility search engines … for those of us who require a computer to tell us who we’re actually attracted to.

The Craigslist casual encounters section happens in real time.  The women on the site are local now, horny now and are usually interested in finding a man NOW.

That’s what makes Craigslist the biggest and best online pick up destination in the world.

If haven’t used Craigslist yet to change your dating life, you should. And if you’ve been there and didn’t seem to find much more than spam and other guys looking for women, then you need this.

Ten reasons every man looking for women needs to be on Craigslist

1. More women = more opportunities … even when their presence isn’t obvious.

There’s a hidden ocean of women out there on Craigslist every day. They’re not always easy to spot. There are a lot of ads from other guys, tons of spam, prostitutes and other time wasters. But the real women are there … you just need to know how to identify them and get their attention. That requires a strategy. Fortunately, I've written all the details.

2. Craigslist is the #1 online destination in the world for dating and hookups.

Nobody makes money from Craigslist being the largest site in the world for picking up women. Sites that cost you $40 a month won’t tell you that, and Craigslist doesn’t need to advertise its free services. But it is definitely the top site in the world for finding women. Even when they’re not posting ads themselves, thousands of women in every city are reading the posts placed by men. And there’s great power in numbers.

3. No profiles = great opportunity

Craigslist changes the whole dating template by doing away with profiles. The use of profiles brings with them the assumption that a woman should scrutinize every detail you provide before answering your message. Everything on Craigslist is done in the moment, immediately. There is no setting a profile and coming back a week later to check your messages. If a woman wants sex now (or very soon, at least) she goes to Craigslist. If she doesn’t, she has no reason to waste her time there. So the women you do correspond with are ready for sex.

4. It’s ALL local.

While every dating site offers search functions to find local singles, you usually end up talking to someone who seems great … she just lives a couple of states away. But on your local Craigslist page, every woman you will find is local to you. And since she’s local, that means you can meet her very, very quickly … if you play your cards right.

5. You eliminate the transition from polite conversation to sex.

Every dating/pickup relationship has that moment where you need to transition from polite conversation into a more sexual realm, and if you miss it you end up in the dreaded friendship zone. Unless you’re on Craigslist -- where, if you do it right, you start off talking about sex from word one. It’s a part of the strategy I mentioned in reason #1.

6. It’s FREE!

And free is always good. Sometimes free is even great.

7. You will live out your greatest sexual fantasies.

Every post can be placed anonymously. That means that with every post you can explore different aspects of your sexuality. Have a fantasy that is too dirty to discuss in polite company? Is it too dirty to associate with all of your friends, family and coworkers have come to know? Write it up in an ad on Craigslist … it shouldn’t take long to find a woman outside of your circle of friends to help you fulfill it.

8. Kiss approach anxiety goodbye.

Hate dealing with that rising internal apprehension just before you try to meet women at a club, bar or party? Meeting through Craigslist does away with that completely. If you do it right, you can have her ready for sex and on her way to your place before you even meet face-to-face. Again, strategy.

9. You can do it from your couch while wearing boxers.

You can meet beautiful, sexy women from the comfort of your very own living room, as you watch a ball game on TV. What other venue offers you a chance to get laid in such a comfortable setting?

10. You will beat out the competition ... if you do it right ...

A great deal of your competition on Craigslist isn’t all that … sophisticated. Half of the guys on there send women a picture of their dick saying nothing more than, “Wanna fuck?” With the right strategy, you can do a LOT better than that.

BONUS REASON: Being attractive is a plus. But it certainly isn't necessary.

I’m fat. I’m bald. I’m short. I’m not rich. And I’m not all that sexually gifted. And yet I have had sex with more than 120 beautiful, sexy woman using Craigslist. You don’t have to be all that attractive, a snappy dresser or super smooth meeting new women. You just need the right strategy.

There’s a lot more to know. I’d be happy to tell you more. You can read all about my adventures on Craigslist right here.

There’s only ONE problem with traditional pickup artist routines.

They’re all over the internet. Just Google the term “PUA” and you’ll find them: smart, inventive guys offering an array of tips on perfecting your inner game, walking up to beautiful women and seducing them. It’s every single man’s dream come true, right? What more could anybody want?

But what if you’re naturally shy, or short, or fat, or bald, or not especially rich? What if you suffer severe approach anxiety (AA)? Where are you supposed to find the confidence to walk up to that first woman and begin a seduction routine? What if you’re not ready to look a woman in the eyes and be rejected. Or slapped. Or laughed at? Or worse? (What is worse? I’m sure you can imagine something …)

Most PUAs say the best way to develop that confidence is to jump in head-first and start picking up women. So, basically, you’re supposed to walk into target-rich environments and strike out a zillion times until you’ve overcome the fear of rejection. 

In the meantime, while you’re crashing and burning, you’re advised to “develop your inner game”.  This is the essence of what makes you who you are. It is the confident vibe that women will notice and respond to. But what if you lose the will to live before your inner game is fully developed? How will you ever learn how to talk to women?

Obviously, there has to be a better way.

And now there is.

It’s the Craigslist Conqueror method. It’s easy, it’s quick to learn, it doesn’t require the investment in a new wardrobe, memorizing pickup lines, learning a new vocabulary or establishing a different posture. It’s the perfect way for any guy just beginning to climb up the PUA ladder to get started and grab that first rung. It’s a way to develop not just your inner game, but to also work on your intimate inner game (which is completely different as I will explain in the near future). It allows you to meet and sleep with as many women as you have the stamina for, but allows you to do it from the safety of your own home, in the comfort of a t-shirt and boxers while watching a ball game on TV.

I developed it. I’m short, overweight, balding and not generally good-looking or rich. And yet it’s brought me more than 120 conquests. And counting.

Want to learn more? CraigslistConqueror.com