It’s a common mistake: a guy hears that the casual encounters section of Craigslist is brimming with women wanting to get laid quickly. So he goes to CL … and … hey! Where the hell are all the women’s ads???? Almost all I see is ads from men!!! WTF???
Relax. The real women are right there. Their ads simply disappear after 5-10 minutes, while all the ads from men stay up for days or months. You just have to know how to develop your timing. It’s as easy as hitting refresh repeatedly. Here’s why …
Spammers are always working hard to get to us guys, to sell us something: an unneeded membership to a paid dating website, a membership to a porn site, etc. In their evil brilliance, the spammers have found that if they “flag” the real women’s posts, the many guys who don’t understand the timing of CL will only be able to answer the fake ads from “women” who will then try to get those poor schmucks to sign up for some kind of membership.
SOLUTION #1: Hit refresh. Regularly. Like every 15-25 seconds. About every 7-10 minutes, Craigslist will post another handful of fresh ads from CL users, from men, women and spammers too. You can’t predict the exact timing, so refresh frequently. Then when a new ad from a REAL woman presents itself, act fast. You have about 5-10 minutes to answer her ad before she is flagged and her ad is removed. If you haven’t been fast enough, after you send your note you will get a message back from your email provider saying the email was undeliverable to that address. Blame the spammers, their quick flagging and your own slow typing.
SOLUTION #2: Place your own ads seeking women. Despite the BS and spammers, an ocean of REAL women continues to cruise the site looking for men. Tens of thousands of women. Every day. In every major city throughout the US and the world. And since most ads placed by men don’t get removed from the site, those men’s ads can live on Craigslist for weeks or months. Think of it like laying a mine field. If you compose killer ads, post enough of them frequently and strategically, REAL women will find them and respond accordingly. BANG!!!
SOLUTION #3: Try both. Some women just place ads and wait for the men to come to them. Some would never place an ad, but WILL answer ads from men that really get their juices flowing. Give yourself the best odds of hooking up with a new woman tonight. Hit both groups of women.
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It is a fact that most women will answer ads versus post ones right away. I started answering ads for about six months before I posted my first ad.
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