Sunday, July 15, 2012

Three perfectly logical (but completely wrong) reasons the Craigslist Conqueror methods couldn’t possibly find hot women for sex

One of the great things about my experience as an author is that I get to tell my story all the time, usually to audiences that have never heard it. When I explain how a bald, broke, overweight guy slept with more than 120 beautiful, sexy women over 18 months, I am generally greeted with two responses:

  1. Wow, that is awesome. Maybe any regular guy can have the sex life of a rock star.
  2. Liar!!!!!!

While I appreciate that first response, it’s easy for me to understand the people who gravitate toward the second one. After all, each of our life experiences tells us that it’s highly improbable for a shy, unattractive guy with no money to attract beautiful, sexy women who just want to have sex with him. So it’s probably impossible for that same guy to get on Craigslist, meet 150+ sexy, attractive women and have sex with 120+ of them. After all, we all “know” several things that make this story impossible:

  1. Craigslist is just so … creepy! Nothing of any value could happen there.
  2. Attractive women don’t need to go to Craigslist to get laid.
  3. A guy who is a “5” will never get a woman who is a “10.”

If any of these three assumptions are true, then every part of my methods must be impossible. Right? Not so fast. Here’s why:

1. Craigslist is just so … creepy! Nothing of any value could happen there.
Craigslist itself is just a forum where everyone who participates can be completely anonymous. That anonymity sometimes allows people to act in creepy, vulgar and sometimes even illegal ways, and you certainly need to be careful of those people. Fortunately, those people are pretty open about their creepiness, vulgarity and/or illegality, so they’re not too hard to identify and avoid.
However, it’s that same anonymity that makes Craigslist perfect for attractive, educated women who want to explore their dirtiest, most taboo fantasies. That same beautiful woman you keep trying to attract on a traditional dating site may have fantasies that she would never consider sharing any place where she’s not completely anonymous. So she’s on Craigslist, anonymously looking for a “Master,” a “Dom,” a “Daddy,” a “sub” or anything else that feels too dirty to look for on a site where she has to fill out a profile. Will she ever admit her fantasies to most people? No. She won’t even admit that she’s ever been on Craigslist. But the guys using the Craigslist Conqueror methods aren’t just attracting her attention … they’re meeting her and living out her wildest sexual fantasies.

2. Attractive women don’t have to go to Craigslist to get laid.
This is 100% true. No attractive woman needs any website to get laid. But then, NO WOMAN I’VE EVER MET ON CRAIGSLIST JUST NEEDED TO GET LAID. Each attractive woman who is on Craigslist is looking for a VERY specific experience. That experience is NEVER about just getting laid. It’s about fulfilling a fantasy that no man in her life has been able to offer. Usually these are simple fantasies to fulfill, if you just pay attention, but most men don’t. If you can offer her the EXACT experience she’s looking for, if you can communicate it in a way that wraps her in her fantasy and makes her believe she will finally experience it, and if you can make her feel safe doing it, she will be on her way over to your place just a few hours after your first contact with her.
Of course if you want to prove that you can only find unattractive, desperate women on Craigslist, you can do that too. Instead of wrapping a woman in a fantasy, just offer her a chance to get laid. And include a picture of your crotch.

3. A guy who is a “5” will never get a woman who is a “10.”
This is also 100% true … in dating. A guy who isn’t attractive, wealthy or special in any way usually isn’t going to get a date with the prom queen. But this is NOT dating. This is fantasy fulfillment. She’s not planning to introduce you to her friends and family. She’s not going to consider coming home to you every day for the rest of her life. But … if you convince her that you can safely fulfill her deepest fantasy, she will come over to your place, she will experience the sexual fantasy she has always wanted to fulfill … and then she will go home. If she enjoys herself, she may be back. Your looks aren’t a factor in the same way they would be if she was looking for a life partner, or even if she was just looking for someone to take to parties. If you fall short of dating material and you’ve gotten her excited enough about her fantasy, she will come over and give you a night you’ll look back on fondly for the rest of your life.

Don’t believe me? Listen to a few of the guys who have tried the Craigslist Conqueror methods. Or you can just try it for yourself!

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