Indian men: you could use help in finding more sex

That’s according to a survey commissioned by Men’s Health, that talked to more than 50,000 participants in thirty countries. The results showed that Indian men have less sex than men from any other country surveyed, with an average of three sex partners in a lifetime. (Croatian men have the most: an average of 11 sex partners in a lifetime.) Most guys who read Secrets of the Craigslist Conqueror are finding three new sex partners within the first two months of trying the strategies in the book.

If you want to read more about the survey results, go here.

So what does this mean? It means the men of India need to read both books from the Craigslist Conqueror. If you know anyone in India, pass it on!

Identifying spam on Craigslist just got easier!

Sometimes change is hard. But sometimes it’s pretty awesome! Kudos to the guys at Craigslist working hard to weed out all the spam. They have made a change to their system that makes life substantially harder on the spammers.

Craigslist now creates an email conduit for all email conversations. When you talk with someone via Craigslist, you will find that you’re using an account name made up of random letters and numbers, provided by Craigslist. Now, the downside is you can no longer see the email address of the person you’re talking to. However, the BIG upside is that the person (or spammer) you’re talking to can’t see your email address either.

What does this mean? It means spammers are no longer able to harvest your email address to spam you endlessly. That means spammers now need you to reply to a different email address than the conduit provided by Craigslist so they can get your email address. And that means it’s easier than ever to identify about 40% of the spam out there — both the spam that arrives in your email inbox and the spam that gets posted on Craigslist. Anytime you see a “woman” asking you to reply to an email other than by hitting “reply” to their post, or even if “she” mentions an alternate email address for you to contact, well, my friend, you have just identified spam. Be sure to report it to Craigslist as often as you can.


Want to know the other 20 rules for identifying spam? Check out Chapter 13 of Secrets of the Craigslist Conqueror!

Need more phone numbers to open new Craigslist accounts?

In my first book, Secrets of the Craigslist Conqueror, I advised you to create as many Craigslist accounts as you can, at least three. Because most people only have a cell phone and a home phone, it was not easy creating more than two accounts, and for many one account was all they could open.

I have found an easy, new, low-cost solution for creating new numbers that Craigslist has been allowing to verify new accounts. It’s an phone app for the iPhone and the Android called “Burner.” I’m not being paid to promote this product, it’s simply the easiest way I have found to create new phone numbers to verify new Craigslist accounts.

It’s called “Burner” because each phone number you create is a “burner number.” Use it for a limited time and then it expires or “burns.” Perfect for creating a Craigslist account and then immediately forgetting about the phone number.

Here’s how the Burner app works:
When you download the free app, it gives you a variety of payment options. The first option is the ability to create one free “Sample Burner.” I urge you to use the freebie, because you never know when Craigslist may decide to change the way it accepts verification numbers. This free number will expire 24 hours after you create it, so be sure to create a new Craigslist account within the same day.

Once you’ve used that number, if you’d like to create more numbers, the app allows you to buy them for as little as $1.99. The more time you want before your number expires (up to 60 days) the more the number will cost. But for Craigslist, your number only needs to last for the minimum amount of time offered.

This is a great app that is, judging by the testimonials I’ve found online, is being used by a lot of people selling products on Craigslist. Take advantage of it!

SCIENTIFIC STUDY PROVES: Key part of the Craigslist Conqueror methods successful!

Here’s the headline: Sexually aroused women find everything less disgusting. It’s based on a Dutch research study in which women who were sexually stimulated felt less disgust at performing acts such as drinking juice from a glass with a bug in it.

What does this mean to you?

It means that a woman who might usually find a man unattractive, when properly aroused, will decide that maybe he’s kind of cute after all. This is the key to the Craigslist Conqueror methods:

Step 1: Meet a woman in an anonymous forum where you can’t see each other.
Step 2: Wrap her in her deepest, most secret sexual fantasy from your first words.
Step 3: Escalate her excitement through the resulting conversation.
Step 4: Trade pictures.
Step 5: If she is excited enough, she will want to meet you, regardless of the fact that she would not normally be attracted to you.

Most guys (especially the ones who haven’t tried the Craigslist Conqueror methods yet) think that a truly hot woman will never settle for an average-looking guy to fulfill her sexual fantasies. This study proves otherwise. The key is getting her excited enough to say yes do doing things she would usually never do … with someone she would usually never do them with. If you don’t know how to get a woman that excited, the answer is just a few clicks away.

Mia Love is NOT a dirty, worthless whore.

I came up with the phrase. I put it in my book. And I've had guys using those words to seduce women online for more than a year now. So I know a little something about the phrase. I'm happy to share my methods to help men and women come together to fulfill mutual fantasies. But I don't appreciate anyone using my carefully crafted phrases for political purposes.

My publisher has just issued this press release on my behalf:

MIA LOVE NOT “DIRTY, WORTHLESS WHORE”

SAYS MAN WHO FIRST COINED THE PHRASE

Author Aaron Smith says those words reserved for fantasy role play only

The man who first made the phrase “dirty, worthless whore” famous in his book Secrets of the Craigslist Conqueror has released a statement saying such language has no place in today’s political discourse. This has come in response to hackers who defaced the Wikipedia page of Utah Congressional hopeful Mia Love, calling her a “dirty, worthless whore” along with other insults.

“The use of terms like ‘dirty, worthless whore’ are hurtful and completely inappropriate outside of the fantasy role play realm. And even within fantasy role play, this and other terms are only appropriate with a partner who has clearly consented to participating in this type of activity in a safe and sane environment.”

Smith is an expert in seduction and fantasy fulfillment initiated through communication.  He has spent years helping men and women explore their fantasies and give themselves permission to fulfill their secret selves. Often that means finding a way to communicate deep, secret desires that might be completely opposite from the personas they show the world.

“The runaway phenomena of the novel franchise, 50 Shades of Grey has brought the concepts of domination and sexual power exchange to the forefront of our popular culture dialog,” explains Smith.  “Millions of women have read the book and imagine themselves participating in such an activity. Often, it’s the strongest, most independent, best educated women who most feel the need to fulfill this type of fantasy.”

Smith expressed his outrage at the hurtful and despicable personal attacks made against Love by using a phrase he coined to bring people together for their mutual fantasy fulfillment.

“Language like that belongs only in the bedroom between consenting adults, playing in a safe and sane manner,” Smith said.  “It has no place whatsoever in the political discourse. Using it in the effort to publicly destroy people with whom we disagree hurts our personal fantasy lives as much as it hurts our national political debate.”

Through Smith’s book, his personal coaching and his online classes, he has been showing men all over the world how to communicate with women to create safe, judgment-free environments in which their fantasies can be actualized. And in doing that, he has created oases of safety where men and women can give themselves the permission to explore their most secret selves.

He has explained his communication and seduction methods on the Howard Stern Show, Playboy Radio and many other radio shows and podcasts.

Learn more about Smith, his books and his work at: http://craigslistconqueror.totemapp.com/

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If you'd like more information about this topic, or to schedule an interview with Aaron Smith, 

please contact Rooster Publishing at RoosterPublishing@CraigslistConqueror.com.

If you're a politician looking for sex with underaged boys on Craigslist: STOP IT!!!

I want to make this crystal clear. Please stay off of Craigslist if you are any of the following:

• A politician
• Hoping to have sex with a minor
• Planning to have sex in the bushes of a highway rest stop

For most readers, this point goes without saying. Evidently, for others, the point needs to be made. I refer to people such as Minnesota Rep. Kerry Gauthier (D), recently arrested for performing the rare trifecta above. In one evening, he gave a bad name to Craigslist, rest stops and politicians.

Way to go, Kerry!

And a special high-five for the Minnesota officials who won't be pressing charges.

 If you're think you're capable of using the power of Craigslist without acting like a complete douchbag, feel free to check out the very most effective methods of meeting other consenting adults.

Still waiting for that “platonic friend” to notice you’re perfect for her? (PART II)

So you’re in love with her, but she says the two of you can only be friends. As I established in PART I of this blog entry, once she gives you the “just friends” designation, you’re probably never going to be anything more. I say “probably” because I have witnessed exactly ONE method that can change everything.

Contrary to what you’ve seen in the movies, trying the direct approach – romantically confessing your undying love for her – isn’t going to make her suddenly realize that she has feelings for you. Most women are at least somewhat in touch with their feelings and don’t need a heartfelt confession to realize what is truly in their hearts. So if you try what you’ve seen in the movies, you’re going to end up looking pathetic to her, and you will walk away thinking you’re a complete loser. Don’t believe me? Ask ANY guy who has actually tried it. Or even better try it yourself and let me know how it works out for you.

THE SOLUTION
There is one way to build your image in her eyes so that you MIGHT have a chance at happiness with her in the future. It can change her feelings for you, but even if it doesn’t, it will forever change (for the better) how you feel about yourself.

STEP ONE: Find women who DO want you.
Notice I didn’t say “find a woman.” I said find WOMEN. It’s not hard to do, here’s how. You will need four to seven of them, depending on how much energy you have. You don’t want so many women in your life that you’re short-changing any of them. Make sure you have the energy and the time to satisfy each one of them, and they will each come back again and again. You want to have a different woman for every mood, a different woman for each night of the week.

Be completely honest with each of them about what you’re looking for: just some fun, no strings, no relationships, but also allow yourself to be open to more if everything feels right. You won’t have the type of feelings for any of these women that you have for your “friend” (at least not at first). None of them has to seem as perfect or as beautiful to you as your “friend” (although at least of couple of them will be if you do this right).

STEP TWO: Explore!
Use this time to explore every sexual fantasy you’ve ever had, and to learn about every type of woman you can meet. Discover what you love best about each type of woman, what you love most about every type of sex and everything you love about yourself. Most men never give themselves the opportunity for the type of exploration that comes from having a group of friends with benefits available. They miss out on learning much about pleasing women and pleasing themselves. Use this time wisely.

STEP THREE: Just walk around.
Have you ever known someone who was once extremely overweight, then lost every pound of it and is now incredibly fit? They walk with an amazing sense of pride and confidence. Even if you never knew them when they were overweight, you can absolutely sense their confidence now.

It’s the same way with men who know they can find a new woman at any time, and who know they are able to sexually please any woman they meet. Suddenly, women aren’t such a mystery anymore. Now YOU get to be the mystery. As you go about your life, everyone will sense your newfound confidence. They will sense it in the way you walk, the way you talk and in the way you regard yourself. You will be asked if you got a new haircut, or if you’ve been working out. People won’t be able to figure out exactly what it is, but they will feel that you’ve changed something about yourself for the better.

Everyone will see it. Coworkers, friends, family … even the one who feels you’re “just friends.”

And – contrary to what some screenwriters would have you believe – the woman who thinks of you as “just a friend” doesn’t need to see you with any of these new women to make you seem more attractive. That won’t change anything. It will be your newfound confidence that makes all the difference.

It’s the type of confidence that can never be faked. Either you’ve given yourself the experiences you need to feel that confidence, or you haven’t. And once you’ve gained that confidence, you can’t ever lose it.

STEP FOUR: Enjoy!
So what happens next? Anything is possible. In some cases the girl who wanted nothing from you but friendship begins to sense something different about you … although she may not be able to identify it. But as your self confidence increases, so will her attraction to you. If her previous decisions were based on the certainty that she could always take your attention for granted, she will quickly learn that she has lost most (possibly all?) of your attention. She will then need to make some new decisions to get your attention back.

In some cases she will never completely change her mind about you. But do you know what you will quickly discover about yourself? You will learn that, above anything else, you deserve a woman who wants you. You will discover that you deserve a woman who wants you in every way, a woman who would never consider insulting you by saying all she wants to be is your “friend.”

You will realize that any woman who still wants to be “just friends” with you doesn’t deserve a place in your life. You will have grown. You will demand better for yourself. And you will get it.

And guess what! You will now have several really awesome women in your life who already see you as more than a friend. And if you don’t feel any of them are perfect for you, you now know how to find more.

Still waiting for that “platonic friend” to notice you’re perfect for her? (PART I)

It’s known as “oneitis.” It’s the feeling every man comes to know at least once in his life when he falls in love with a woman who regularly tells him she loves him too … but only “as a friend.”

This is also the one non-Craigslist-related question I get asked most often: How do I turn a girl from a friend into something more?

Researchers from the University of Wisconsin-Eau Claire have come to the rescue with some fresh insight. They surveyed the opposite-sex relationships of more than 400 adults, ranging in age from 18-52. Their findings offer some important scientific observations on which any man can make some important decisions.

FINDING #1: “Attraction in friendship is happening, and it’s persistent,” says lead author April Bleske-Rechek, associate professor of psychology. “In the majority of (opposite-sex) friendships there’s at least a low level of attraction. And if it’s coming more from one friend than the other, it’s probably the guy.”

FINDING #2: Men reported more attraction to their female friends than women did to their male friends; men overestimated their friend’s level of attraction to them, while women underestimated attraction; and men reported a stronger desire to date their friend than did women.

FINDING #3: The men assumed that the women were more sexually interested in them than they actually were – and the women tended not to realize this.

So what does this mean for the guy who is helplessly in love with a girl who only “loves” him back as a friend? It means this:

Regardless of how many love songs a guy hears or how many movies he sees in which friends become lovers, it’s rarely something that happens in real life. Once a girl decides a friendship is platonic, a guy’s fate in usually sealed.

So does a guy have any chance at all in making a friend into something more?

Yes. In some situations, there IS a chance of changing the entire dynamic. Check my next blog entry for more about how this can actually work.

Three perfectly logical (but completely wrong) reasons the Craigslist Conqueror methods couldn’t possibly find hot women for sex

One of the great things about my experience as an author is that I get to tell my story all the time, usually to audiences that have never heard it. When I explain how a bald, broke, overweight guy slept with more than 120 beautiful, sexy women over 18 months, I am generally greeted with two responses:

1. Wow, that is awesome. Maybe any regular guy can have the sex life of a rock star.
2. Liar!!!!!!

While I appreciate that first response, it’s easy for me to understand the people who gravitate toward the second one. After all, each of our life experiences tells us that it’s highly improbable for a shy, unattractive guy with no money to attract beautiful, sexy women who just want to have sex with him. So it’s probably impossible for that same guy to get on Craigslist, meet 150+ sexy, attractive women and have sex with 120+ of them. After all, we all “know” several things that make this story impossible:

1. Craigslist is just so … creepy! Nothing of any value could happen there.
2. Attractive women don’t need to go to Craigslist to get laid.
3. A guy who is a “5” will never get a woman who is a “10.”

If any of these three assumptions are true, then every part of my methods must be impossible. Right? Not so fast. Here’s why:

1. Craigslist is just so … creepy! Nothing of any value could happen there.
Craigslist itself is just a forum where everyone who participates can be completely anonymous. That anonymity sometimes allows people to act in creepy, vulgar and sometimes even illegal ways, and you certainly need to be careful of those people. Fortunately, those people are pretty open about their creepiness, vulgarity and/or illegality, so they’re not too hard to identify and avoid.
However, it’s that same anonymity that makes Craigslist perfect for attractive, educated women who want to explore their dirtiest, most taboo fantasies. That same beautiful woman you keep trying to attract on a traditional dating site may have fantasies that she would never consider sharing any place where she’s not completely anonymous. So she’s on Craigslist, anonymously looking for a “Master,” a “Dom,” a “Daddy,” a “sub” or anything else that feels too dirty to look for on a site where she has to fill out a profile. Will she ever admit her fantasies to most people? No. She won’t even admit that she’s ever been on Craigslist. But the guys using the Craigslist Conqueror methods aren’t just attracting her attention … they’re meeting her and living out her wildest sexual fantasies.

2. Attractive women don’t have to go to Craigslist to get laid.
This is 100% true. No attractive woman needs any website to get laid. But then, NO WOMAN I’VE EVER MET ON CRAIGSLIST JUST NEEDED TO GET LAID. Each attractive woman who is on Craigslist is looking for a VERY specific experience. That experience is NEVER about just getting laid. It’s about fulfilling a fantasy that no man in her life has been able to offer. Usually these are simple fantasies to fulfill, if you just pay attention, but most men don’t. If you can offer her the EXACT experience she’s looking for, if you can communicate it in a way that wraps her in her fantasy and makes her believe she will finally experience it, and if you can make her feel safe doing it, she will be on her way over to your place just a few hours after your first contact with her.
Of course if you want to prove that you can only find unattractive, desperate women on Craigslist, you can do that too. Instead of wrapping a woman in a fantasy, just offer her a chance to get laid. And include a picture of your crotch.

3. A guy who is a “5” will never get a woman who is a “10.”
This is also 100% true … in dating. A guy who isn’t attractive, wealthy or special in any way usually isn’t going to get a date with the prom queen. But this is NOT dating. This is fantasy fulfillment. She’s not planning to introduce you to her friends and family. She’s not going to consider coming home to you every day for the rest of her life. But … if you convince her that you can safely fulfill her deepest fantasy, she will come over to your place, she will experience the sexual fantasy she has always wanted to fulfill … and then she will go home. If she enjoys herself, she may be back. Your looks aren’t a factor in the same way they would be if she was looking for a life partner, or even if she was just looking for someone to take to parties. If you fall short of dating material and you’ve gotten her excited enough about her fantasy, she will come over and give you a night you’ll look back on fondly for the rest of your life.

Don’t believe me? Listen to a few of the guys who have tried the Craigslist Conqueror methods. Or you can just try it for yourself!

How do you distinguish the spam from the real women on Craigslist?

This is another question I get all the time. Answering this one is vital to any man’s success on Craigslist. There is a LOT of spam on Craigslist. Every fake ad and every fake email exists to talk you into spending $40 or more on a monthly subscription to a dating/sex/porno site instead of finding what you’re really there for.

Why? Because your average spammer, using nothing but a server and a few thousand IP addresses can make over a million dollars a year spamming Craigslist. The question is this: do you want to help a spammer get rich, or do you want to meet a woman? If you want to meet a real woman, read on.

To most guys using Craigslist for the first time, the spam looks no different from the real thing. Guys who don’t know what to look for can spend entire nights doing nothing but responding to spam. But there is a secret to avoiding all of the spam!

THE SECRET THAT SPAMMERS DON’T WANT YOU TO KNOW

Every fake ad on Craigslist and every fake email response was generated weeks before you read them. The act of posting spam ads and sending out spam emails is completely automated. The spammers have clever tricks to make you think you’re talking to a real girl, but there is no technology created yet that will trick you if you knows most of the spammers’ tricks.

I devoted an entire chapter to recognizing and avoiding spam in my book, and if you keep in mind everything I coach you through, you will avoid 95-98% of the spam on Craigslist.

In case you’re here looking for a couple of quick tips, here are two that will allow you to recognize and eliminate nearly half of the spam coming your way:

• When you’re responding to women’s posts, don’t bother responding to anything that is more than 35-40 minutes old. There are many of reasons for that, and they’re all in the book.
• When a woman responds to one of your posts, if she sends you a link to ANY site, she is spam. I have probably met more women than any other man on Craigslist, and NEVER ONCE did a real woman send me the link to a site other than Facebook. And on those occasions when she DID send me to Facebook, it wasn’t until we had sent several emails back and forth.

These are just two of my 20 Rules of Spam, found in Secrets of the Craigslist Conqueror. Each rule is simple and easy to remember. Follow them, and while other guys waste the night replying to “girls” who just want to sell them expensive subscriptions to dating/sex/porn sites, you’ll be able to devote all of your attention to finding the real women, wrapping them in their fantasies and living those fantasies!

Can this method work in a conservative city?

This is another question I get almost every day. Women in conservative areas, particularly in the south, seem somehow too conservative to fit most of the profiles of Craigslist women I write about in my book. While liberal areas usually offer the very best environment to find women open to fulfilling their fantasies, women in the most conservative cities still offer a great deal of opportunity.

Every woman has a sexual fantasy, regardless of where she lives. Some can communicate those fantasies to a partner who will listen and respond appropriately, but some can’t. The women who can’t communicate their fantasies still need a place where they can consider fulfilling those fantasies where they can remain anonymous. And the most popular place in the world for that is Craigslist. Even in a conservative town. Just wrap a woman in her fantasy, getting her wetter and wetter with each word, letting her know she’s safe and that you can create an environment where she won’t be judged, she will speed over to your place to do EVERYTHING you describe.

Now imagine that same woman, but instead of on Craigslist, you meet her at a party, club or bar where she has friends, co-workers, maybe even family around. Is she going to share her dirtiest fantasies there? With a guy she has just met? A guy who may judge her or laugh at her or embarrass her, especially in such a conservative environment? What if, in this fantasy, she is completely the opposite of the image she tries to portray to the rest of the world? She can’t afford to share that with you, or with anyone. So she keeps this fantasy as one of her deepest, darkest secrets forever … until one day she finds a place where she can investigate this fantasy completely anonymously … and that’s where you come in!

I believe that, in many cases, the more conservative a woman’s upbringing and environment, the harder she’ll work to push down her fantasies. So … when she finally does find a place where she can anonymously explore her fantasies … watch out!

Does this method work for guys in their 50s?

It’s one of the most frequent questions I get: Will the Craigslist Conqueror methods work for guys in their 50s?

The quick answer: Yes it does. Thank you for asking!

The longer answer:

These methods work well for any man, regardless of his age. In fact, the Craigslist Conqueror methods might offer older men the best chance of success. The fact is that there are certain fantasies that a man in his 50s and 60s and even into his 70s can offer a woman in her 20s, 30s and 40s that a young man in his mid 20s can’t. Think of some of the most taboo fantasies such as Daddy/daughter, professor/student, Boss/ employee, etc. Every woman who has these fantasies knows they’re extremely taboo, and because of that, they often won’t act on these fantasies for years. Add the fact that it’s rare for women to have men in their social circles who are 20-40 years older than them, so even if the taboo was somehow removed, it might still be a challenge for them to fulfill these fantasies with a legitimately older man.

By not acting on their fantasies, over the years those fantasies just get dirtier and dirtier in a woman’s mind until an older man comes along, offering her a safe place — physically and emotionally — to live out everything she’s ever imagined. Once she finds that older man, she will release years of wanting, of fantasizing, of need.

It’s important to note fantasies don’t necessarily require an older man that is great looking or in great shape, just an older man who makes her feel safe.

Can you rise to the level of making her feel safe? If you can, then yes, this method will definitely work for you. Thanks for asking!

(For more on this subject, go here!)

At which PUA level are you operating?

Do you believe the ultimate PUA goal is as simple as finding women and getting them into bed? Yes, for some men that can be as deep as PUA ever gets. But there is SO much more than that for you to experience in picking up women. What level of PUA do you operate at?

LEVEL 1: The Horny Man

We’ve all been there. For some of us it was when we were in high school. For some, it was just this morning. Either way, Level One is a general feeling that a woman is needed. At this level, the man in question doesn’t have a clue as to how he might find the lucky woman. In PUA parlance, this is your common AFC (average frustrated chump).

LEVEL 2: The Man Who Knows He Deserves Something Better

You can get laid whenever you’d like. Perhaps you have a couple of regular booty calls or a friend with benefits. You’ve gained some confidence, and you feel your inner game growing. And while you appreciate the average-looking girls who make themselves available to you, there is this nagging feeling that you should be with the prom queen. Someone who really makes heads turn and makes your pals jealous. You don’t have a concrete plan as to how you will get a hot woman, but you have confidence that you’ll figure something out.

LEVEL 3: The Man With One Hot Woman

Congratulations! You've found the woman who makes your friends drool every time they look at her. And while there's no denying she's hot as hell ... there are just a few things about her that make you wish she would change about herself. Yeah, you're happy. But you know you could be a lot happier ...

LEVEL 4: The Man With Several Hot Women

You are living the PUA dream. You have a variety of hot women who make themselves available to you whenever you like. A booty call for every mood. You walk into any situation confident in the knowledge that you can quickly seduce the hottest woman in any room. You become the man that beautiful women want to be with and that other men want desperately to be. This is the end goal of most PUA advice. And yet, there is still one deeper level to explore …

LEVEL 5: The Sexually Complete Man

You have taken home enough prom queens to have learned that there isn’t a correlation between a woman's beauty and her ability to give sexual pleasure. You’ve realized that you deserve more than an okay blow job followed by average sex in the missionary and doggie-style positions. You want kink. Role-play. Alternative ways of fucking that some women just won’t to do. You want to swing from the chandeliers. You want to experience sex that you can look back on fifty years from now and smile. And you don’t want to waste your time picking up a girl and taking her home before you find out what kind of sexual experiences she’s up for. You've come to realize that sometimes you need the school slut (I recommend getting a couple of them at once, by the way) rather than the prom queen.

But where does the sexually complete man find woman like that? And how does he know how to avoid the ones who just want nice, average, regular sex?

I don’t know about you, but I’ve only found one place like that. It’s the one place where women wanting immediate sex are willing to be explicit in their sexual needs and desires. All I have to do is fill their needs. Piece of cake.

Are you curious about exploring Level Five of PUAdom? It's actually rather easy. You can learn more here.

Would you rather be a woman's considered purchase or her impulse buy?

HINT: Would you rather wait a month to get laid or would you rather be having sex right now?


Marketers have long understood that people buy different types of products in different ways. Some purchases require some thought, maybe some research. Others are “impulse buys.” Consider a woman at a grocery store. In the cereal aisle she picks up a brightly colored box. She reads the contents, checks the calories, maybe the amount of sugar and the price. She puts that box back on the shelf and picks up a different brand, repeating the process. Finally she makes her choice, puts it in the cart and moves on to the next aisle. The next time she’s in this aisle, she may simply buy the same brand again, or you may see her examining multiple brands before making her choice. This is a considered purchase for her.

But watch that woman when she gets to the checkout line. She grabs a pack of gum and throws it on the conveyor belt. No real examination of contents, price or anything else. She grabs it and the decision is made. This is an impulse buy.

It’s the same way with online dating/sex sites. The traditional sites are set up to make you a “considered purchase” for her. You answer questions. You fill out compatibility surveys. You write essay questions about who you are and what you want. You give them more information than even the IRS would ask you. By the time she writes her first word to you, she knows: your height, your body type, your eye color, your hair color, your age, your birth date, whether you’ve ever been married, if you have any kids, whether they’re living with you, what part of town you live in, your hobbies, your pets, the industry you work within, what you like to do on a date and a variety of other things you may choose to share about yourself. On some sites she even knows all of your sexual proclivities and/or your yearly salary. She approaches that site with a long-term plan: she joins, she carefully fills out everything, and then starts reading the notes she gets from the thousands (yes, thousands) of men trying to get her attention, with the intention of studying each one, and responding to the ones that seem like the best prospects. She then starts going out on dates with the expectation of finding the perfect long-term partner.

The very fact that a dating/sex site presents so much information about you to a potential date creates the assumption that all of this information is important and needs to be taken into account. I mean, honestly, do you really care about her eye color or what she does for a living? No. But she is paying careful attention to every bit of information she sees on you, and making judgments with each new factoid.

So you have already been examined, probed and investigated before she even bothers to communicate with you. And if you’re almost her perfect match, except you’re an inch shorter than she’d like, or she’d really like to find someone with a different eye color, she moves on without so much as a hint that she might have been interested. Most women know they can find someone a little more perfect if they just keep looking. She owes it to herself to be picky!

But CL is the ONLY effective place online where you can position yourself as her “impulse purchase.” She finds herself at home and bored, more than a little horny, so she gets on CL to see who she can meet and have fun with tonight. Yes, there is a pretty good chance she’d rather be in a completely satisfying long-term relationship right now, but it takes a great deal of time and effort to get to that point, and she wants to have some fun tonight. It’s time for her to grab an impulse purchase and put it on the checkout counter!

So now she has no need to see a full explanation of who you are and what you are all about. You don’t have to commit yourself to a single deep exposition into your heart and soul that every woman will read, contemplate and judge. Now, when you’re on CL, you are just the words crafted in a response to her post, specifically for that woman to see. Or you are the words in your own ad, created to appeal directly to one kind of woman who will read what you have written and react with an email telling you she is interested, and interested NOW. With each communication, you will position yourself as exactly the man she is looking for tonight. She wants to go grab a drink at that new bar that opened up and then “see what happens from there”? What a coincidence! You were already planning on going there tonight! She needs someone who can please her orally over and over all night long? Perfect! That’s your specialty! She wants someone she can tie down and use however she likes? Wonderful! You can even bring the rope!

Your long-term goals, your career, your history, everything she would focus on if you were a considered purchase, it’s all irrelevant. Because now you’re an impulse buy. Just be fun, honest and safe, and you will get laid.


(This is an excerpt from the new hit book, Secrets of the Craigslist Conqueror: An Expert's Guide to Getting Laid on Craigslist. Would you like to read more? Go here.)

How the earthquake has made it easier to get laid ... at least for tonight!

Yes, the earthquake could have turned out to be a terrible tragedy. But everyone seems to be fine, no real damage anywhere. So let's move on to how this benefits you!

Actually there was SOME damage. Some internet nodes seem to be slow or even downright offline. If any of your favorite websites are based on servers in the U.S. east coast they may be hard to access. This has had a MAJOR effect on the spammers who flag all real women's ads in the casual encounter section.

Usually posts from real woman have a life expectancy of about 10 minutes before they are flagged. Tonight they seem to be up for an hour or more in all cities across the U.S.

Less flagging means more opportunity for guys to find women who want sex now. So ... what are you waiting for?


P.S. -- Want to know how to maximize your chances once you're there?

Where the women on Craigslist are hiding

It’s a common mistake: a guy hears that the casual encounters section of Craigslist is brimming with women wanting to get laid quickly. So he goes to CL … and … hey! Where the hell are all the women’s ads???? Almost all I see is ads from men!!! WTF???

Relax. The real women are right there. Their ads simply disappear after 5-10 minutes, while all the ads from men stay up for days or months. You just have to know how to develop your timing. It’s as easy as hitting refresh repeatedly. Here’s why …

Spammers are always working hard to get to us guys, to sell us something: an unneeded membership to a paid dating website, a membership to a porn site, etc. In their evil brilliance, the spammers have found that if they “flag” the real women’s posts, the many guys who don’t understand the timing of CL will only be able to answer the fake ads from “women” who will then try to get those poor schmucks to sign up for some kind of membership.

SOLUTION #1: Hit refresh. Regularly. Like every 15-25 seconds. About every 7-10 minutes, Craigslist will post another handful of fresh ads from CL users, from men, women and spammers too. You can’t predict the exact timing, so refresh frequently. Then when a new ad from a REAL woman presents itself, act fast. You have about 5-10 minutes to answer her ad before she is flagged and her ad is removed. If you haven’t been fast enough, after you send your note you will get a message back from your email provider saying the email was undeliverable to that address. Blame the spammers, their quick flagging and your own slow typing.

SOLUTION #2: Place your own ads seeking women. Despite the BS and spammers, an ocean of REAL women continues to cruise the site looking for men.  Tens of thousands of women.  Every day.  In every major city throughout the US and the world. And since most ads placed by men don’t get removed from the site, those men’s ads can live on Craigslist for weeks or months.  Think of it like laying a mine field.  If you compose killer ads, post enough of them frequently and strategically, REAL women will find them and respond accordingly. BANG!!!

SOLUTION #3: Try both. Some women just place ads and wait for the men to come to them. Some would never place an ad, but WILL answer ads from men that really get their juices flowing. Give yourself the best odds of hooking up with a new woman tonight. Hit both groups of women.

Want to learn how to develop your Craigslist game and achieve the sexual lifestyle of your dreams? It’s all within your grasp …

Pop quiz: what is the most efficient site on the internet for hookups?

Pencils down! If you said Craigslist, then A+ for you.  For years, it has been the biggest and most active pickup sites on the internet. To this day, the Craigslist casual encounters page rules as the top-rated destination for hooking up online with women for sex.  More than 55 million people go to Craigslist every month—and a large percentage of them are women going there in search of immediate sex. 

Why?  Because Craigslist is free. It doesn’t charge to post ads or to reply to other people’s ads.  It is completely anonymous and it doesn’t require a static profile.  These are all major attractions for the women of Craigslist.

Meanwhile, most other dating and sex sites charge guys monthly fees to review women’s profiles and pictures.  But, how many of those women are actually available?  Are they still active on the site?  Will they be online tonight? Will they be in the mood to meet tonight? Do they even live in the same state?  What kind of returns are these sites delivering on the $40/month investment?  Well, there are those compatibility search engines … for those of us who require a computer to tell us who we’re actually attracted to.

The Craigslist casual encounters section happens in real time.  The women on the site are local now, horny now and are usually interested in finding a man NOW.

That’s what makes Craigslist the biggest and best online pick up destination in the world.

If haven’t used Craigslist yet to change your dating life, you should. And if you’ve been there and didn’t seem to find much more than spam and other guys looking for women, then you need this.

Ten reasons every man looking for women needs to be on Craigslist

1. More women = more opportunities … even when their presence isn’t obvious.

There’s a hidden ocean of women out there on Craigslist every day. They’re not always easy to spot. There are a lot of ads from other guys, tons of spam, prostitutes and other time wasters. But the real women are there … you just need to know how to identify them and get their attention. That requires a strategy. Fortunately, I've written all the details.

2. Craigslist is the #1 online destination in the world for dating and hookups.

Nobody makes money from Craigslist being the largest site in the world for picking up women. Sites that cost you $40 a month won’t tell you that, and Craigslist doesn’t need to advertise its free services. But it is definitely the top site in the world for finding women. Even when they’re not posting ads themselves, thousands of women in every city are reading the posts placed by men. And there’s great power in numbers.

3. No profiles = great opportunity

Craigslist changes the whole dating template by doing away with profiles. The use of profiles brings with them the assumption that a woman should scrutinize every detail you provide before answering your message. Everything on Craigslist is done in the moment, immediately. There is no setting a profile and coming back a week later to check your messages. If a woman wants sex now (or very soon, at least) she goes to Craigslist. If she doesn’t, she has no reason to waste her time there. So the women you do correspond with are ready for sex.

4. It’s ALL local.

While every dating site offers search functions to find local singles, you usually end up talking to someone who seems great … she just lives a couple of states away. But on your local Craigslist page, every woman you will find is local to you. And since she’s local, that means you can meet her very, very quickly … if you play your cards right.

5. You eliminate the transition from polite conversation to sex.

Every dating/pickup relationship has that moment where you need to transition from polite conversation into a more sexual realm, and if you miss it you end up in the dreaded friendship zone. Unless you’re on Craigslist -- where, if you do it right, you start off talking about sex from word one. It’s a part of the strategy I mentioned in reason #1.

6. It’s FREE!

And free is always good. Sometimes free is even great.

7. You will live out your greatest sexual fantasies.

Every post can be placed anonymously. That means that with every post you can explore different aspects of your sexuality. Have a fantasy that is too dirty to discuss in polite company? Is it too dirty to associate with all of your friends, family and coworkers have come to know? Write it up in an ad on Craigslist … it shouldn’t take long to find a woman outside of your circle of friends to help you fulfill it.

8. Kiss approach anxiety goodbye.

Hate dealing with that rising internal apprehension just before you try to meet women at a club, bar or party? Meeting through Craigslist does away with that completely. If you do it right, you can have her ready for sex and on her way to your place before you even meet face-to-face. Again, strategy.

9. You can do it from your couch while wearing boxers.

You can meet beautiful, sexy women from the comfort of your very own living room, as you watch a ball game on TV. What other venue offers you a chance to get laid in such a comfortable setting?

10. You will beat out the competition ... if you do it right ...

A great deal of your competition on Craigslist isn’t all that … sophisticated. Half of the guys on there send women a picture of their dick saying nothing more than, “Wanna fuck?” With the right strategy, you can do a LOT better than that.

BONUS REASON: Being attractive is a plus. But it certainly isn't necessary.

I’m fat. I’m bald. I’m short. I’m not rich. And I’m not all that sexually gifted. And yet I have had sex with more than 120 beautiful, sexy woman using Craigslist. You don’t have to be all that attractive, a snappy dresser or super smooth meeting new women. You just need the right strategy.

There’s a lot more to know. I’d be happy to tell you more. You can read all about my adventures on Craigslist right here.

There’s only ONE problem with traditional pickup artist routines.

They’re all over the internet. Just Google the term “PUA” and you’ll find them: smart, inventive guys offering an array of tips on perfecting your inner game, walking up to beautiful women and seducing them. It’s every single man’s dream come true, right? What more could anybody want?

But what if you’re naturally shy, or short, or fat, or bald, or not especially rich? What if you suffer severe approach anxiety (AA)? Where are you supposed to find the confidence to walk up to that first woman and begin a seduction routine? What if you’re not ready to look a woman in the eyes and be rejected. Or slapped. Or laughed at? Or worse? (What is worse? I’m sure you can imagine something …)

Most PUAs say the best way to develop that confidence is to jump in head-first and start picking up women. So, basically, you’re supposed to walk into target-rich environments and strike out a zillion times until you’ve overcome the fear of rejection. 

In the meantime, while you’re crashing and burning, you’re advised to “develop your inner game”.  This is the essence of what makes you who you are. It is the confident vibe that women will notice and respond to. But what if you lose the will to live before your inner game is fully developed? How will you ever learn how to talk to women?

Obviously, there has to be a better way.

And now there is.

It’s the Craigslist Conqueror method. It’s easy, it’s quick to learn, it doesn’t require the investment in a new wardrobe, memorizing pickup lines, learning a new vocabulary or establishing a different posture. It’s the perfect way for any guy just beginning to climb up the PUA ladder to get started and grab that first rung. It’s a way to develop not just your inner game, but to also work on your intimate inner game (which is completely different as I will explain in the near future). It allows you to meet and sleep with as many women as you have the stamina for, but allows you to do it from the safety of your own home, in the comfort of a t-shirt and boxers while watching a ball game on TV.

I developed it. I’m short, overweight, balding and not generally good-looking or rich. And yet it’s brought me more than 120 conquests. And counting.

Want to learn more? CraigslistConqueror.com