Can this method work in a conservative city?

This is another question I get almost every day. Women in conservative areas, particularly in the south, seem somehow too conservative to fit most of the profiles of Craigslist women I write about in my book. While liberal areas usually offer the very best environment to find women open to fulfilling their fantasies, women in the most conservative cities still offer a great deal of opportunity.

Every woman has a sexual fantasy, regardless of where she lives. Some can communicate those fantasies to a partner who will listen and respond appropriately, but some can’t. The women who can’t communicate their fantasies still need a place where they can consider fulfilling those fantasies where they can remain anonymous. And the most popular place in the world for that is Craigslist. Even in a conservative town. Just wrap a woman in her fantasy, getting her wetter and wetter with each word, letting her know she’s safe and that you can create an environment where she won’t be judged, she will speed over to your place to do EVERYTHING you describe.

Now imagine that same woman, but instead of on Craigslist, you meet her at a party, club or bar where she has friends, co-workers, maybe even family around. Is she going to share her dirtiest fantasies there? With a guy she has just met? A guy who may judge her or laugh at her or embarrass her, especially in such a conservative environment? What if, in this fantasy, she is completely the opposite of the image she tries to portray to the rest of the world? She can’t afford to share that with you, or with anyone. So she keeps this fantasy as one of her deepest, darkest secrets forever … until one day she finds a place where she can investigate this fantasy completely anonymously … and that’s where you come in!

I believe that, in many cases, the more conservative a woman’s upbringing and environment, the harder she’ll work to push down her fantasies. So … when she finally does find a place where she can anonymously explore her fantasies … watch out!

Does this method work for guys in their 50s?

It’s one of the most frequent questions I get: Will the Craigslist Conqueror methods work for guys in their 50s?

The quick answer: Yes it does. Thank you for asking!

The longer answer:

These methods work well for any man, regardless of his age. In fact, the Craigslist Conqueror methods might offer older men the best chance of success. The fact is that there are certain fantasies that a man in his 50s and 60s and even into his 70s can offer a woman in her 20s, 30s and 40s that a young man in his mid 20s can’t. Think of some of the most taboo fantasies such as Daddy/daughter, professor/student, Boss/ employee, etc. Every woman who has these fantasies knows they’re extremely taboo, and because of that, they often won’t act on these fantasies for years. Add the fact that it’s rare for women to have men in their social circles who are 20-40 years older than them, so even if the taboo was somehow removed, it might still be a challenge for them to fulfill these fantasies with a legitimately older man.

By not acting on their fantasies, over the years those fantasies just get dirtier and dirtier in a woman’s mind until an older man comes along, offering her a safe place — physically and emotionally — to live out everything she’s ever imagined. Once she finds that older man, she will release years of wanting, of fantasizing, of need.

It’s important to note fantasies don’t necessarily require an older man that is great looking or in great shape, just an older man who makes her feel safe.

Can you rise to the level of making her feel safe? If you can, then yes, this method will definitely work for you. Thanks for asking!

(For more on this subject, go here!)

Ten reasons every man looking for women needs to be on Craigslist

1. More women = more opportunities … even when their presence isn’t obvious.

There’s a hidden ocean of women out there on Craigslist every day. They’re not always easy to spot. There are a lot of ads from other guys, tons of spam, prostitutes and other time wasters. But the real women are there … you just need to know how to identify them and get their attention. That requires a strategy. Fortunately, I've written all the details.

2. Craigslist is the #1 online destination in the world for dating and hookups.

Nobody makes money from Craigslist being the largest site in the world for picking up women. Sites that cost you $40 a month won’t tell you that, and Craigslist doesn’t need to advertise its free services. But it is definitely the top site in the world for finding women. Even when they’re not posting ads themselves, thousands of women in every city are reading the posts placed by men. And there’s great power in numbers.

3. No profiles = great opportunity

Craigslist changes the whole dating template by doing away with profiles. The use of profiles brings with them the assumption that a woman should scrutinize every detail you provide before answering your message. Everything on Craigslist is done in the moment, immediately. There is no setting a profile and coming back a week later to check your messages. If a woman wants sex now (or very soon, at least) she goes to Craigslist. If she doesn’t, she has no reason to waste her time there. So the women you do correspond with are ready for sex.

4. It’s ALL local.

While every dating site offers search functions to find local singles, you usually end up talking to someone who seems great … she just lives a couple of states away. But on your local Craigslist page, every woman you will find is local to you. And since she’s local, that means you can meet her very, very quickly … if you play your cards right.

5. You eliminate the transition from polite conversation to sex.

Every dating/pickup relationship has that moment where you need to transition from polite conversation into a more sexual realm, and if you miss it you end up in the dreaded friendship zone. Unless you’re on Craigslist -- where, if you do it right, you start off talking about sex from word one. It’s a part of the strategy I mentioned in reason #1.

6. It’s FREE!

And free is always good. Sometimes free is even great.

7. You will live out your greatest sexual fantasies.

Every post can be placed anonymously. That means that with every post you can explore different aspects of your sexuality. Have a fantasy that is too dirty to discuss in polite company? Is it too dirty to associate with all of your friends, family and coworkers have come to know? Write it up in an ad on Craigslist … it shouldn’t take long to find a woman outside of your circle of friends to help you fulfill it.

8. Kiss approach anxiety goodbye.

Hate dealing with that rising internal apprehension just before you try to meet women at a club, bar or party? Meeting through Craigslist does away with that completely. If you do it right, you can have her ready for sex and on her way to your place before you even meet face-to-face. Again, strategy.

9. You can do it from your couch while wearing boxers.

You can meet beautiful, sexy women from the comfort of your very own living room, as you watch a ball game on TV. What other venue offers you a chance to get laid in such a comfortable setting?

10. You will beat out the competition ... if you do it right ...

A great deal of your competition on Craigslist isn’t all that … sophisticated. Half of the guys on there send women a picture of their dick saying nothing more than, “Wanna fuck?” With the right strategy, you can do a LOT better than that.

BONUS REASON: Being attractive is a plus. But it certainly isn't necessary.

I’m fat. I’m bald. I’m short. I’m not rich. And I’m not all that sexually gifted. And yet I have had sex with more than 120 beautiful, sexy woman using Craigslist. You don’t have to be all that attractive, a snappy dresser or super smooth meeting new women. You just need the right strategy.

There’s a lot more to know. I’d be happy to tell you more. You can read all about my adventures on Craigslist right here.